困惑男人一生的心理
人类社会制造了“男子优越”的种种神话，使男子在生活中付出不可估量的代价。为了维护“男子汉”的尊严，成千上万的男人，正在自我困惑、自我挣扎、无休止的劳顿和自我毁灭之中，只有男人们都能认识到社会文化对男性压迫和异化，放下“优越”的架子，以坦诚的态度去探索和改变自己的内心世界，才能从旧的、毁灭式生活模式中解放出来，使自己的生活更加坦然、真实、和谐和美丽。
男人从记事那天起，就开始接受一种教育而逐渐形成一种观念：这个世界是一个男人的世界，男性是这个世界的主宰，男性优越。
为了维护“男子汉”优越的尊严，成千上万的男人生活在种种压抑之中：
–在现代的社会文明中，青年男子照例应是两性关系的挑战者和胜利者，“搞到手”的女孩子越多，他的“魅力”越被同伴们所称道，另一方面，社会伦理道德却教育他，那些生理心理的需求和追逐女性的方式，都是“浅薄”、“越轨”的行为，当他犯忌去“欺骗”别的女性时，潜在的负罪感和自我鄙视感便成为对自己内心的谴责。
——早在儿童时代男孩子就已经懂得，男子汉气概韵味着不依赖任何人，依赖被视为懦夫和女人气，男子与他人的沟通和关系因此受到限制，男子的种种需求因此也被自我否定了。
——“有种”、“天不怕地不怕”是对男孩子打架的褒赏，而“胆小鬼”、“懦夫”、“杂种”之类的词汇，成为鼓励男子铤而走险、寻衅闹事、自我毁灭的添加剂。
–对女人的轻视，使男人害怕和“女人味”沾边儿。在当今时代，女孩子大胆地起着男孩的名字，日益闯入男性的传统领域，而男人不敢起女人的名，耻于进入妇女的传统领域，对“女人味”的惧怕，无形中断绝了男人后退的余地和选择的可能，使男人们不得不摆出一副装腔做势的架子在奚落别人后疏远自己。
——为保持男子汉的形象和在竞争中取胜，男人在互相交往中总是保持高度警惕和戒心，难于开诚布公，生怕暴露自己的缺点和弱点，变得封闭和孤独。
——文化强迫男人有决断能力、思维严谨、头脑清晰、使得男人的头脑很难同时接受那些模棱两可的，矛盾的事物，变得刻板、僵硬、绝对、专横、要么自负，要么自卑，难以在生活中取一种变通坦诚的态度。
–“男儿有泪不轻弹”、“女人才爱哭鼻子”，女人的眼泪引起人的同情，男人的眼泪使人厌恶，这样的女人文化使男人不会哭泣，并羞于愉快地承认和表达自己的情感。
Human society has created all kinds of myths about “men’s superiority”, making men pay an immeasurable price in life. In order to maintain the dignity of “manhood”, thousands of men are in self-confusion, self-struggle, endless fatigue and self-destruction. Only men can realize that social culture oppresses and alienates men and let go of their “superiority”. Only by exploring and changing your inner world with a frank attitude can you be liberated from the old and destructive life model and make your life more calm, true, harmonious and beautiful.
Men began to receive a kind of education from the day they remembered, and gradually formed a concept: this world is a man’s world, men are the masters of this world, and men are superior.
In order to maintain the superior dignity of the “man”, thousands of men live in various depressions:
–In modern social civilization, young men should be the challengers and winners of the relationship between the sexes as usual. The more girls who “get their hands”, the more their “charm” is praised by their peers. On the other hand, society Ethics and morality taught him that the physical and psychological needs and the way of chasing women are “shallow” and “deviant” behaviors. When he is guilty of “deceiving” other women, he has potential guilt and self-contempt. It becomes a condemnation to my heart.
——As early as childhood, boys have understood that masculinity means not relying on anyone. Dependence is regarded as coward and feminine. Therefore, the communication and relationship between men and others are restricted, and the various needs of men are also self-denied. Up.
—— “There is a kind” and “I am not afraid of the sky and the earth” are praises for boys fighting, while words such as “coward”, “coward” and “mongrel” have become encouraging men to take risks, provocation, and self-destruct. additive.
–The contempt for women makes men afraid of being “feminine”. In today’s era, girls boldly adopt the names of boys and increasingly break into the traditional realm of men, while men dare not to name women and are ashamed to enter the traditional realm of women. The fear of “feminine” is invisibly interrupted. In addition to the room for men to retreat and the possibility of choice, men have to put on a posture to alienate themselves after taunting others.
——In order to maintain the image of a man and win in competition, men always maintain a high degree of vigilance and vigilance when interacting with each other. It is difficult to be open and honest, for fear of exposing their shortcomings and weaknesses, and becoming closed and lonely.
——Culture compels men to have decisive ability, rigorous thinking, and clear mind, making it difficult for men’s minds to accept those ambiguous and contradictory things at the same time, becoming rigid, rigid, absolute, bossy, either conceited, or inferior, and difficult to live Take a flexible and honest attitude.
-“Men have tears, don’t flick them”, “Women love to cry noses”, women’s tears arouse people’s sympathy, men’s tears are disgusting, such a woman culture prevents men from crying and is ashamed to admit happily And express your emotions.
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