In addition to two couples in marriage, they also have children and parents. A qualified man can’t just be busy with his career, and can’t just do good work and neglect the education of his children. And even more men forget about it
Respect your parents. They may have such a mentality, but they don’t always take action. It is too late to regret when “the child wants to be filial and filial.” Have you seriously reflected on how long you haven’t managed your child’s education? Does it matter whether the children’s education is left to their wives or even to their parents? Has it been a long time since I visited my parents or even made a phone call? …
After marriage, men tend to hold their wives in their hands, and they often do something they want to do, but they often inadvertently ignore something, and the signs of discord between husband and wife begin to appear unconsciously. . It is only after the marriage is in trouble that you find that if you want to work hard, you will have little effect, or even irretrievable, only regret.
Busy and busy, men rarely have time to calm down to reflect, in fact, it is not without time, but most men are unwilling to even disdain to reflect on some problems in marriage and emotions. It seems that doing so is quite psychological. Misunderstanding. Without reflection, you cannot grow, and without reflection, the problems will accumulate. The following questions are the most introspective questions for men in six marriages. I hope that men in marriage can take the time to think about these issues.
Has wives and children not worried about food and clothing?
Many men seem to be working, and they seem to be very busy every day, but have you ever thought about: Is your busyness half the result? Even the problem of food and clothing for wives and children is too much to save? Although the abilities of men are different, if the abilities are really limited, of course, they don’t have to be demanding, but there are not many men with poor abilities. Most of them are capable, but they don’t work hard, they are not ambitious, and they are addicted to games or gambling tables.
Does neglect his wife’s emotional needs?
Materials are just a basic requirement. As a married man, in addition to providing relatively worry-free material conditions for his wife and children, is he too devoted to work or entertainment and neglects his wife’s spiritual needs? For example, go shopping with the wife, take a walk with the wife, do you remember the wife’s birthday or the couple’s wedding anniversary? Will some romantic demands for the wife’s sentiment violently disrupt the blow?
Is it too long to chat with my wife?
Without communication, there would be no harmonious relationship between husband and wife, and there would be no warm and happy marriage. Most women are willing to chat and talk, and most men tend to be silent. Has it been too long since I have had a good chat with my wife? Has it been too long since I have communicated about the big and small things in life? Even just a word, rudely just one person? Is it just to pay attention to socializing and go home late every day so that my wife often keeps alone?
Does inadvertently hurt his wife through his words and deeds?
Most men are careless and often think they are right. They accidentally say something they shouldn’t say and do something they shouldn’t. They don’t realize it, and the wife doesn’t point out because of love. Existence, this requires men to take the initiative to reflect and reflect on a regular basis. Did you accidentally hurt your wife’s heart by an unintentional sentence or an unintentional move? Has his macho behavior wronged his wife?
Are you neglecting to educate your children and honor your parents?
In addition to two couples in marriage, they also have children and parents. A qualified man can’t just be busy with his career, can’t just do good work and neglect the education of the child, the so-called son is not the father. There are even more men who have forgotten to honor their parents because they are busy. They may have the intention, but they will not always take action. It will be too late to regret when “the child wants to be filial and filial.” Have you seriously reflected on how long you haven’t managed your child’s education? Does it matter whether the children’s education is left to their wives or even to their parents? Has it been a long time since I visited my parents or even made a phone call?
Is worthy of his wife’s love loyal to marriage?
Marriage is the marriage of two people. Life is for themselves, not for others, so it is most important to be worthy of one’s heart. On the surface, they are harmonious and never even quarreled. Others seem to be model couples. But in fact, many model couples are just an illusion.
is loyal to marriage, not by concealment and deception, or by saying that the wife does not know her ambiguous or even derailed actions outside, it seems to be at ease. If the man is outside, does it compare to the wind? Do you play confidant games ambiguously with online women? Is it true that the wife’s trust is loyal to marriage?