Regardless of whether you are convinced or not, in real life, it is not so difficult to be a great lover. As long as you do not belong to the mass entertainment film and television circle, you are only in a limited network of people, and you don’t need to be too handsome or sunshine. As long as it makes people feel that you are energetic, you don’t need to be very rich, as long as you are not bald or blessed.
Of course, two “prints” must be collected: one is to be careless and not stingy, the other is to keep humorous. Originally, as long as one of these two “prints” was able to attract the full attention of women. If you have these two qualities at the same time, then you can make the women around you crazy, then you are not a lover?
He is just a clerk in the company, but he can turn women of any age in the company into his fans without leaving any gaps: occasionally talk to the old sister, or tell jokes like Gongyue, any errands and laborious tasks. The child never shied away from it, and never refused any female colleague of any weight class to ride a motorcycle.
He is married. His wife is a daughter of family acquaintances, and she was fascinated by him because of his various qualities, and she later married. Everyone in the company knows the fact of being married, but there is a girl who can’t let him go.
This girl was originally a picky person. Because the family conditions were good and her appearance was average, the conditions for picking a partner became narrower and narrower. She was still not married until she was 29. The problem is, everyone did not expect that she would pester him, and take the initiative to ask him to drink tea and play. This kind of distraction he made for fun, and went there, but everyone persuaded him, knowing that she was touched, you should avoid it, why is it like lighting an oil lamp, but also specially selected the wick to make the fire more prosperous ? Of course he knows how to deal with matters between men and women, so he doesn’t know much about it, but the girl clearly enjoys this kind of detachment.
I believe that some men’s selfishness is buried in the core of the reason “cannot bear to hurt”. Why do she expect results? Why not let her overcome the disappointment in reality? Such men are selfish in agreeing that they need to use the opposite sex. The admiration of people believes that only when someone responds appropriately to their own characteristics can they prove that they are important. All this affected his self-esteem again!
Should she sacrifice her feelings, or his self-esteem? The sober people around felt that it was cruel to continue gentle dating, but he was hopelessly inclined to the latter.