With the rapid development of the times and the increasingly fierce competition in work, many young people are ruthlessly consuming their physical and mental health and other spare time in order to complete their careers and life goals. Leave behind. When he was 30 years old, many unmarried men looked at other people around them and even their children were in elementary school. At this time, they began to value their love and marriage under the urging of their parents and relatives. So, what is the love psychology of a 30-year-old man? Here are a few suggestions.
First, victory is not necessarily the case
Chasing girls is not particularly difficult. If you think you are chasing very hard, you are probably chasing the wrong person. If you struggle to catch up with a girl, it is better not to overtake it, because it is so hard to have a girlfriend. That is to say, your love is unequal from the beginning. The reason why she hesitated and refused to agree with you is that her bone consciousness thinks that you are not worthy of her, and what you may not insist on is happiness. marriage.
Second, it is not necessary to hang on a tree
30-year-old man’s love psychology, but also need to correct their mentality. We always cherish our first love, and said to her at first that I will love you alone in this life and this world, and never say anything to her. We always think this way. What we thought was right, but time will dilute everything, including all the feelings, affection, and friendship in the world. When the reality comes, when one day she does not love you first, you will continue to be stubborn. Do you like her? Do you have to be persistent and even wait for her to divorce before marrying you? Don’t walk to a tree withered, you still have a lot of choices, because someone hurt you first, why do you even slapp her? Ask yourself whether it is right to raise your parents. What do they get from their son?
3. It is not necessary to stick them together every day
You may think that this is the old saying. In fact, not every man knows the importance of this point. You want to get the heart of a woman. Diligence should be. You should always care about her and take care of her. She is very right. But you just can’t be with her all the time, everyone needs a certain amount of private space, even if you are a couple. Men always like the monkey’s anxious hope to be spiritually happy with women. Women are always willing to leave men to observe the charm of men from a distance, so that life can add color, rather than being buried in the quilt all day. So men should understand this, not only to understand that it is not easy, but there is nothing wrong with it.
In short, the 30-year-old man’s love psychology is complex and varied. No matter what your love and marriage concept, you can only have a true understanding of yourself and life, and treat love and marriage with a positive and healthy attitude. Healthy and happy life. In addition, if there are certain psychological problems that can’t be solved by yourself in the process of love or marriage, you may wish to talk to your relatives and friends and let them help you out of psychological distress.